On last Thursday's blog--The Question We're Really Asking--I raised the issue of fairness. "Is God fair?" I asked. This brought some interesting comments from you. Thanks for the interaction. Today I'm going to follow-up with a story I heard years ago from professor, author and theologian, R. C. Sproul.
Dr. Sproul was assigned an Old Testament class of 250 freshmen. In his syllabus he clearly set forth the course requirements. There would be three small papers due by noon on September 30, October 30 and November 30. They were to be finished and on his desk by noon unless the student was physically confined to the hospital or a there was a death in the family. If they didn't submit it in time, they would receive a failing grade.
When September 30th rolled around and the first paper was due 225 students turned their papers in on time and 25 were late. These 25 were scared to death and with abject humility appealed to Professor Sproul, “Please don’t give us an 'F!'" The begged for mercy, wanting an extension.
"OK," the professor relented, "I'll let it go this time. But remember, on October 30 the next paper is due. Don't be late."
"We won't, Professor. Promise!"
October 30th arrived and only 200 papers were turned in on time. Fifty students came to class in terror. They pled with him with abundant excuses about it being midterm and homecoming. "Give us one more chance," they begged.
"OK. Just one more chance."
The class broke out into song, “We love you, Prof. Sproul, O yes we do.” Dr. Sproul claims that for the next thirty days he was the most popular professor on campus. But then November 30th came. This time only about 150 papers were turned in on time and a hundred students came into class as casual as could be. They weren't worried in the least.
“Where are your papers?” Dr. Sproul demanded.
“Hey, Prof, don’t worry about it. We’ll get them done in a couple of days," came the relaxed response.
The professor took out the grading book, “Johnson, where's your paper."
"I don't have it, sir."
"F.”
“Greenwood—I don't have yours either. F.”
Professor Sproul describes the response as "unmitigated fury."
“That’s not fair!” Greenwood claimed.
"I don’t ever want to be thought of as unfair or unjust. You want justice?”
“Yes!”
"You were late last time, too. ‘F’ for that one. Anyone else want justice?”
“No!”
I don't know how Dr. Sproul finally resolved the grade issue, but he finished telling his story with a powerful statement, "By the third time, they not only assumed mercy, they demanded it. They assumed I was obligated to be merciful. They had become accustomed to grace. Ours is a history of grace. God is so gracious to us that we can begin to take it for granted. The most difficult theological question I’ve ever had to face in my life is this, 'Why has God been so kind to me?'”
I've told that story many times, but am still impacted by it. It makes me think: Why are we more surprised by God's wrath in the Bible than His mercy? Is it possible that we've become accustomed to His grace? Is it possible that we assume we deserve grace but not judgment? I think this is precisely where many people today find themselves, although they would be reluctant to admit it.
Let me conclude by coming back to where I started. Maybe the question is not so much, "Why do bad things happen to good people" or "Why do good things happen to bad people," as it is "Why do good things happen to any of us?"
Grace isn't fair…and I'm glad.



A great story! To be honest, and maybe it's just my personality or my upbringing, but this is not an issue for me. I think it's amazing that God doesn't strike us all dead when we sin. If you think about it, we're commiting offenses directly against Him - that's made clear in the account of David's sin with Bathsheba. I love the Old Testament and I think that they have the question more right that we do, I think the question really is "Why do good things happen to wicked people?" In all honesty, we all probably know that we've been wicked at times and for some reason He spared us immediate judgment and gave us grace. What a wonderful God we have! Ok, I'm done rambling for now.
From across the street,
Matt
1: With my children bedtime had become a tedious chore for me, as I kept giving in to delays and stalling tactics. Newly trained in Love and Logic principles, I made some changes. The first night there was much weeping and gnashing of teeth as I warned and then held to a time cutoff, after which point the lights went out and they could get no more help/cuddles/tickles/stories/prayers/tuck-ins from me. The second night the older one was ready and IN bed 5 minutes after their 30 minute warning!
2: On the way to work this morning I came up suddenly on some much slower traffic (it had been moving smoothly at about 70, in a 65 zone). As you can guess there was a pair of motorcycle police officers on the side of the road with a radar/laser gun. I could say plenty about the overreaction by slowing down to 10 under, but how often do we react with fear at the sight of police when we were doing 5 over hoping for their grace? If we stayed within the law all the time, there would be no need to fear.
God has been so very kind to me. I feel so blessed esp with the husband God gave me. I talk to many hurting, lonely wives and think...Wow, why did God choose me to be Cory's wife?! I am so thankful!
Point well taken by Mr. Sproul, one those students likely never forgot. One we should keep before us when we are in a subordinate position and in our relationship with God. But here's my question, sorry I have one...should Mr. Sproul have taken some ownership in the problem? He had taught them how to treat him. He had taught them the value of his word and his instruction. Had they lost respect in his authority? In his words? Regardless, they should have followed his rules...absolutly! No excuses! He had the right to do what he wanted to do. I'm just wondering if it would be wise of us, who find ourselves in Mr. Sprouls shoes, whether in our homes or offices to be very aware of the influence and impact of our actions/or lack there of...what am I teaching/projecting to those around me? How am I impacting their performance and who they are becoming?....I know that wasn't the point of the story but it got me thinking...sorry...you know me
I enjoyed that story. It reminded me of an Ed 400 class in my college days.
During a recent foray in the community earlier this week, Ron and I took some furniture to a young family in need. Patti Warkentin had prompted us to say at some point, "This is a gift from Salem Alliance Church." Over the years, I've modified it a bit and this time I said, "This is a gift from our church." He nodded and then I asked, "And what church is that?" He quickly replied, "Assembly of God." I told him he was in the ballpark but it was actually SAC.
I thought it was funny and realized that, to him, a church had helped him and is it really important that SAC gets the "credit"(?) for doing what we are supposed to do? I think things will get sorted out without making a big deal out of it. He was grateful and also received a SAC brochure and Bible.
Lyn
Thanks for this. Much to chew on.
Life is full and I probably wouldn't have found it today but for a conversation with Reebs and Bex processing life and someone said, "It's like John said on his blog..."
Love it how your writing is regularly weaving through conversations all across the world.
Waking up on this beautiful Saturday morning, I too am struggling with the question why do good things happen to me. When I look around, my wife, my son, my daughter and son-in-law, and my grandson, what more could any man ask for than this. Today, I know that I have been given way more than I deserve, and for this I am so thankful. God continues to use my family and you to remind me of so many things, and to remember, "His grace is sufficient for me"!
Thank you for your encouragement each and every day and your faithfulness to Him.
Randall
Who has the answer is what every one wants to know? It must be God. Again the question, WHY!................